I Am Having Trouble Figuring Out What This Woman Wants.

[johndoe365]

I'm going to try and summarize our "relationship" as quickly as I can.

-We met a year ago and became good friends.
-She's the type of girl that has semi-traditional values; she wants a man who is a man, but wants to pay for her share on dates and stuff.
-I found out she was interested in maybe being more than friends, so I asked her out.
-First date was awkward and weird because I am an awkward guy; I missed some obvious signs like when we were watching a movie in the theatre and she put my hands on her breast/inner thigh. Alas, I did not nothing. We walked by the lake afterwards talking, and at the end she said she enjoyed it, but when I tried to show I was interested in a kiss, she just kinda avoided it and instead wanted to hug front/front or back/front
-Before I asked her out we had agreed to go watch fireworks the next day as friends, but since I asked her out, this firework day turned into a date.
-It was also kind of awkward. The night ended with me holding my arms around her from behind. She likes to stand like that it seems.

A week later I ask her out, this time I force myself to stop being awkward. We had dinner and went bowling. She loves bowling. She seemed to have a good time, and at the end of the night we kissed. And again, and again. Madeout, sort of. First time we kissed she used tongue. Asked her if maybe she wanted to go to the bedroom, she kinda laughed and said "let's just go watch a movie"
Okay.

A few days have passed. We saw each other every day, not as dates, just casual hang outs.

Anyway, some more information:
-She doesn't seem to compliment me. When we were friends she did, but the only compliment I've received so far is "you are good at bowling." I compliment her enough to not be creepy, and to make her feel good.
-She doesn't seem to want to initiate any intimate things. Like hand holding, cuddling, kissing. But if I initiate it, she is happy to go along with it.
-She doesn't seem to be interested in asking me stuff. We do know each other pretty well, but she is mostly interested in talking about herself. When we do have conversations, we are able to talk comfortably, but it's never really about me unless I start talking about myself.
-When we watch a movie at my house on the couch, she seems to like it when I put my arm around her. I even asked is she was comfortable and she said yes, but she doesn't seem to want to cuddle closer...

What the heck do I do? I have no idea what this woman thinks about our... "relationship" or what she wants from me.

[hoxtonchris]

not sure mate but when she likes you behind her she could have been imagining you were someone else,but she now seems ok with the frontal.she does seem a contradiction but what girl dosnt ? dont worry too much she sounds like shes unsure of herself ,give her time dont push too hard and good luck