Uncertain of relationship

[Cabutler10]

Hello,


My fiancé and I seem to be having trouble as in recently we have had quite a few issues. I lost my job so i'm looking for employment so there's stress over money and also I've become a lot more cuddly after the first 18 months of not being cuddly at night so now she says i'm too cuddly. what can I do?

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I forgot to mention that she told me a few days ago one of her ex bfs whom she was friends with mentioned sex to her and she says she shut him down but continued to speak to him until I demanded she stopped.

[Erinesia]

I'm sorry to hear you are going through some difficult times.

I think you need to sit down with your fiancé and have a serious talk about things. Perhaps if you could open up some communication channels with her, you could deal with the troubling issues of "too much cuddling" and "ex BF mentioning sex".

Unfortunately if one partner is unemployed, it will put stress on a relationship. The best thing is to have good communication to talk things out in a calm, non-threatening way.