Are we in a relationship or just a **** buddy ??? Need advice please

[Holidayslover]

Hi guys,
So I met this guy on a dating website , we have had 5 dates now. The first date was normal but we had sex on our second date at his place.
And then we continued meeting each other the next times but always at his place or mine and ended up having sex.
I ever been angry with him when he bailed our date and I said to him "I could invite other guy but I didn't do it cause I don't sleep with multiple guys at the same time"
And he responded "do you like him better than you like me ?"
I didn't answer until he texted me again asking how am I doing few days later and that we arranged to meet again.
The last time was yesterday our 5th date, we were at his place and for the first time I slept over there as he asked me to stay, he said he wanted cuddle and stuff which we did.
Before that we also always ended up cuddle and long talked in bed after sex, he embraced me and such.
But we never had any conversation about us, what are we doing and what do we feel each other.
We rarely text each other not intensive at all.
So I'm confused now as a guy what does he thinks ?? And should I ask him what are we doing ? But I feel like it's gonna lose my dignity at all!
Please help me by giving some advice..
Thanks in advance

[nico88]

Well you've only had 5 dates and even though you've slept together it doesn't change the fact it's only been 5 dates. I wouldn't think I was exclusive with a girl just because we hooked up and have been out a few times.

Best way to find out what he wants is to be straight with him and ask if he sees your relationship going anywhere. Unless you're content where things are then just continue doing what you're doing..the talk will eventually have to come up naturally..I would think anyways..

[fearoflove]

Omg, why must some women be so stupid?!!! He thinks he has all the power now and you've became his booty call. He is only calling you over and cuddling to get some. If you want a guy to be in a relationship with you, don't sleep with him before you get that. He might put have already put you in the non-serious category because guys don't want to be with a loose girl. If you want sex, sleep only with the guy you don't want to have a relationship with.

[hoxtonchris]

your dignity??? didnt that count when you put out for him!