In a love pickle! Help!!

[DominoKisses29]

I am an Aquarius woman and I am dating but not exclusively a Gemini man, he shows interest but told me he does not want commitment. However he is always showing me intimacy and affection but told me he is not ready to commit. He calls me baby and takes me on dates, should I continue this or move on?!

[anya_may21]

Do you enjoy his company and attention? If so, why move on?

Lots of men and women don't want a definite commitment in the early stages, they prefer a more relaxed situation especially if recently out of a long term relationship.

Did this man you like get out of a bad relationship recently or a LT one, wondering the reasons he told you as to why he does not want a commitment?

[DominoKisses29]

He did tell me his ex wasn't a peach and they had a nasty breakup. He is looking for everything in a girlfriend but doesn't want to settle down because he claims to be focused on starting a business and he is considering moving to Texas but a few years from now.

[mylady]

Two options:
1. If you want a commitment, he's not your guy- move on.
2. If you want to have a FWB, he's your guy- stay.

Your lucky, he has told you up front that he does not want to commit. You cant change his mind. Maybe in a few months or a year he may change his mind, but not now. Your can stay and be in this type of relationship and hope, but you may never get what you want from him OR you can stay and enjoy him calling you baby and taking you on dates with no strings attached.

[dem862]

I am an Aquarius woman and I am dating but not exclusively a Gemini man, he shows interest but told me he does not want commitment. However he is always showing me intimacy and affection but told me he is not ready to commit. He calls me baby and takes me on dates, should I continue this or move on?!

Well, as an aquarius you should love the freedom as much as he does. You might do well to be dating a few men, and not try to settle down with this one. As a gemini, he is an intelligent man and a good communicator but you will always have to share him because his attention will always be divided. If you are intelligent and keep him guessing about your motives, he will remain interested in you and his interest may deepen with time.