If he constantly when mad says mean things but regrets it does it usually mean the truth? He is so wishy washy and it's like a damn roller coaster happy then not over days or hours. I'm very passive when it comes to conflict so maybe I'm the reason. I'm getting so depressed over not knowing which one is true..hates me..loves me more than anything. It's like he dosent kno. Sometimes I feel like he's with me for our daughter which isn't fair. His affection has dwindled but also after 5 years that could be comfort. He really only cares about sec and is definitely a sex addict and addicted to porn and even craigslist personals which used to be mainly looking and couples for couples but now it's been women for men. Which is weird because it's a change. I don't mind his surfing the pin and stuff but I we'll his once a day sec with me that "isn't enough" is because of his constant stimuli from all that he looks at. It feels that's all e really cares about with me even in life safely. Not your normal horny guy..lol. Advice?