Breakup or not?please help!

[joshua9]

So,i recently goes into a relationship with this girl,but when my mom found that im in relationship with her, she said that i should breakup with her..My mom said that her mother is difficult to cooperate with and it would be a misery to have mother in law like that. I,myself didnt like her mother too. My mom is afraid that i would get too attached to her and would marry her in the future. im still in senior high school though. What should i do?i love her and she really appreciates me but to be honest i dont want to marry her in the future too because of her mom. Should i break up now before its too late or no?please help!

[TheEvilJester]

You are only in high school so I really don't think you need to worry right now about whether you are going to marry somebody. I mean, I would hope you wouldn't be planning to marry this girl any time too soon anyway. You need to graduate high school, go to college if that is your path, and figure out what you want to do with your life.

So, why not continue to date for now. If you break up just because of this girl's mother, you could wind up missing out on something that could have been amazing. For that matter, who knows? You could date her and find you two don't match for other reasons anyway.

But, imagine if you date her and find out she is somebody you cannot see living without. Maybe, in time, her crazy mother will seem worth it. People can't help who their parents are, so they certainly shouldn't be punished for it. But, in the end that does have to be your decision. If her mother is enough of a deal-breaker for you, then I guess that is your decision. I just personally don't think that should be part of the decision.