Hey, I'm living proof that this CAN happen. My husband is Australian and I'm American, and international relationships are not so uncommon anymore. We live in a great age for this kind of thing. The important part is that you need to understand that, I know this is extremely cliché, ::shutter to writer it:: 'the world works in mysterious ways'. Anything you feel this strongly about must be followed with action, BUT, be prepared that maybe 10 years from now you look back and realize that you were never meant to get the girl, but if you hadn't of chased her to that country, and hadn't of went to School there, then you would never have _________ <- the wonderful thing Future You is in possession of due to your brave choice. And Future You may take a moment to reflect back to Present You and think ' Thanks Man, Thanks for having the guts to follow your heart'. In this scenario it's nothing to do with her, and what she's thinking right now.
Ultimately, that is not the question. The question is: The Ultimate Whomever gave you feelings.. are you going to listen to them or ignore them?
This isn't about her. It's about YOU.
Good Luck!
“Love is the ultimate outlaw. It just won't adhere to any rules. The most any of us can do is to sign on as its accomplice. Instead of vowing to honor and obey, maybe we should swear to aid and abet. That would mean that security is out of the question. The words "make" and "stay" become inappropriate. My love for you has no strings attached. I love you for free.”
― Tom Robbins, Still Life with Woodpecker