My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years, just yesterday he gave me a ring as a proposal to get married but he never really said anything other than give me the ring, today I asked why he didn't propose and he got really mad and like usual flipped everything and made it seem like I have problems and told me to give the ring back so he can pawn it, it hurts me because it does mean a lot to me and I have a feeling he doesn't feel the same way. I try to talk to him but he always turns things around and makes it look like I'm the bad person. I love this man but when I try to talk about our problems he gets upset and turns things around on me, he told me not to tell anyone that I am engaged because he doesn't want me to brag about it, first of all I want going to run around and tell the whole world, only my sister mom and dad. Am I over reacting for asking why he didn't propose ? Am I a bad person for trying to talk about our problems?
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Sorry typo...I meant to say I wasn't* going to run around telling the whole world.