Originally Posted by
Mark29
It seems that my GF is an addict. She will never admit it but it's really becoming annoying.
When we were dating she revealed things about herself like enjoying sex lots and doesn't mind doing it if she isn't in a relationship. She also revealed about 30 1 night stands and went as far as to tell me things she did in detail. Obviously sign's of a high sex drive.
Perhaps to her it was all normal and she seemed proud of it. As the relationship grew though she realised it's nothing to be proud of or brag about.
In our relationship a day never passes without her mentioning sex at least 10 times. Often it is via text messages. Even when she isn't turned on she will turn a general conversation into sex talk. Once she was at the pub with friends and was uploading pictures of drinks to facebook... Yet at that time she was texting me claiming she's so turned on and going into graphic detail about what she wants to do to me.
Every time she has a shower she will make sure I know about it and start a sex texting conversation and include pictures of her body. We have been together for 8 months... Yet in that time I have been sent more than 250 naked/intimate pictures.
In person she is sex crazy. During drinks at the pub she will talk about what she wants to do when we get home. We never get through a film because she is always trying it on. She clearly expects it multiple times a day... If I don't feel like it for a few days in a row when we are together, she get's pretty upset, says it feels like rejection when she want's it and I don't.
I have had quite a few relationships myself, and have never experienced this.
To me, sex is something that happens when both people are in the mood at the same time. There should be no time frames as to how many times it should happen a day and certainly other things in the relationship should be allowed to happen instead of sex getting in the way.
I have spoke to her many times about this but nothing changes. Aside from her claiming that it feels like rejection when she tries it on and I don't want it, she says that the reason she wants it so badly is because she loves me and finds me so attractive (From her past, that isn't fully the case as she had a high sex drive before she met me). She also strongly denies being a sex addict.
At current it's a thing where I feel sex is forced. I have to do things with her, as much as she want's it because if I don't, she will get upset and says about feeling rejected.
Often I have to make excuses. Like once she was trying it on for the 6th time that day. I thought of something off the top of my head and told her there's no time for it as I have planned a meal at a restaurant for us.
Other times, especially with the dirty texts, I have to not reply and pretend I have fallen asleep/busy with something else. Because if I divert the conversation away from sex, she gets that rejection feeling and isn't happy.
Any advice as to what I can do? Thanks
Buy her a "Real Doll" (link conveniently supplied below) Personally I'd order her the "body B" He'll never, ever reject her advances.
She sounds like a manic depressive on a hyper-sexual tangent. Is she off her meds?
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Last edited by Wakeup; 18-11-14 at 04:50 PM.
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