Husband knows im Bi, says its ok!!

[DistantMoo]

What do you guys make of this? I have no male friends I could ask.

My husband has known that I am a bisexual woman since shortly after we met 5 years ago. He has always said that I have his blessing to be with a woman casually as long as I simply "take some photos or even better make it a 3-some" (his words). While I would be happy with both of these situations It has never happened, but I would really like it to.

The problem now is that recently the sexual chemistry has all but gone between us but I still want something to happen with a woman. I really think that we should be more connected together before we bring someone else "into the bedroom" or it could re-spark our chemistry???

Any thoughts please???

Thank you guys xx

[Wakeup]

Does he get to be with this women too and have sex with her or do you expect him to just watch you two go at it?

[smackie9]

Wow you are opening up a can of worms here. You better rethink this. I'm with Wakeup. You need to think about how this is going to play out, what your husband wants out of this, and what is acceptable for you or him. How do you feel seeing him enjoy another women? Are you open with that?

These are things you are going to have to consider before stepping into the arena.