How long did you wait to seriously date after divorce?
I recently met someone online and went out on a few dates. He told me early on that he was recently divorced (less than a yr). We went on 6-7 dates before the holidays and then I went out of town for the holiday. During that time we stayed in constant contact and talked/text. We planned on getting together when I returned and he was eager to see me. We met up a couple days after I got home, had a fun night, and as he dropped me off I bring up getting together again that weekend. He then proceeds to tell me that he thinks he needs space, needs to figure himself out alone before jumping into another relationship, and that he hasn't really dated anyone past 2 dates since his divorce. He said that he really liked me and that I'd be someone he could see having a relationship with, but that he wasn't ready for an every day kind of girlfriend. He wants to stay in touch and said he wouldn't be against hanging out. I said I understood and acknowledged that he'd been through a lot of changes (divorce, relocation, etc). However, I don't know how to proceed with this. He still communicates via text here and there about random things during the day. No mention of seeing each other and definitely not at the frequency as before. I'm afraid to initiate communication first because I don't want him to think I didn't get the message and I'm a clinger. I feel like if he wants space, I really shouldn't initiate any plans with him, but I also don't want him to think that I am not interested either, because I actually am very interested and was a bit crushed that it all hit the breaks.
Anyone have any advice?