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Thread: Is this my GF's way of saying "It's over"?

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    Is this my GF's way of saying "It's over"?

    Right so my GF and I had an over-text argument 2 nights ago. It was started because she found out I had used her YouTube account to like and comment on a video of MINE.

    Just as I realised that her comment was on it I went to delete it, but it was to late. She sent me "Using me to get people to like you is not cool".

    I instantly responded with "Give me a break, Goodnight" --- Foolish, I know.

    The following morning I sent her an apology. I realised how much of an arsehole I had been. She didn't respond.

    I waited around 9 hours later, and called her. She didn't answer at first, but 10 mins later she called back.

    We had a short conversation at the which she said "I'm not in the mood to talk right now" and we said goodnight.




    After talking to her close friend about what happened, I sent another text to my GF. She responded with this:

    "I am really, really upset and I don't want to talk about it now because I'm stressed about University and not thinking straight. I don't think we'll see each other before you go, but maybe next time you're in London when things have calmed
    down".

    Was this a way of breaking up with me??

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    She's wrong, you're right. My bf wouldn't bat an eye if I used his youtube account. So yeah, either she's super petty or using this as an excuse to fight/breakup.

    Also - what kind of a relationship do you have where she can just bail on you and say "maybe I'll seeya around..."? Did you ask what she meant?

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    There HAS to be more to this story. If this really is the whole story, then my advice to you would be to dump her and never look back. If this is truly the whole story, then I have never heard something so ridiculously immature and childish. You used her YouTube account to comment on and like your own video and this is somehow such an offense that she is "really really upset?" Not only that, but it apparently lingers for days?

    There has GOT to be something you are not telling us. Was it a little silly to use her YouTube account to like and comment on your own video? Yeah, sure. I don't see why you would feel the need to do that. But I can't see how anybody would even think twice to give a crap that you did so. I don't know, unless maybe you posted something horrible like "I love Nazis" or something, then at least I could understand she'd be p*$$ed you made people think she said that.

    Honest to God, if this truly is the entire story, and there is no other hidden reason she's actually so upset, then you really need to leave her and find yourself an actual human being to date, not a gigantic bag of warped emotions wrapped in a temper tantrum.

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    When I read your story I wondered what kind of GF she is how serious is it. Its easy to see that love is not strong here.
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