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    What is going on?

    Hello everybody,

    I would like to ask you for your opinion. I am a little bit confused about dating habits. I met a very nice guy in a club. He said he saw me few times around and he liked me. He walked me at home and we kept in touch by whatsapp almost every day. We had a fist date last monday and it went very well. We kept in touch. I told him I dont wanna rush things and take it slowly. He said he understood. He messaged me 2 days ago last time and we had a nice conversation. I messaged him in the evening that day to ask something. I have not seen his "last seen" or that message was delivered anymore. I ask my friend to check if they can see his last seen on whatsapp, and nothing.

    As my friend said, he was crashed into me and I saw it too. i am not sure what I should do. Should I call him and ask what's going on? or should I wait? Does he block me without a reason? I would like to mention, everytime he starts conversation first.
    I know it sound silly but I am seriously confused what to do and I like him. Thank you for your opinions in advance.

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    Do NOTHING. If you have to chase him then he's either not that into you or he's seeing another/several other women and doesn't have time to nurture anything with you the way a man that wasn't dawging around would have.

    You've contacted him last... now it's time for him to contact you. If you "want to take it slow" and he doesn't respond to you after you've said that then he was likely just looking for sex and not wanting to be "taking it slow" at all.

    Its best you quickly find out about men like him so don't chase him.
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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