No sex?

[ljune13]

So, lets get right to it.
Ive been dating my current boyfriend since October. He isn't a virgin, knows i'm not and is a very sexual person. But, doesn't want to have sex. We've talked about it a little but he's never actually given an explanation as to why he wants to wait. I've gotten to the point where i'm starting to joke about it because i don't know what else to do. He doesn't want to talk about it and even when I joke doesn't really respond. What am I supposed to do here? Not have the conversation and just continue not to have sex with this person I'm in a committed relationship with??

I honestly don't know what to do, or how to bring it up to him.

[michelle23]

Without an explanation I would forget him and move on. Sounds like hes playing games

[basilandthyme]

OK, you've tried to address it and aren't getting any response from him. This means the relationship has two problems: He's a poor communicator and there's no sex. Doesn't bode well for the future.

Frankly, I'd end it. And yes, I'd tell him why.

[TablesandChairs]

So, if neither of you are virgins and he's a very sexual person (clearly not with you, though?) then the issue is what? I'd be demanding an answer...because given you're in a commitment relationship, you have a right to know what's going on. Anything less than that...is not acceptable.

[smackie9]

Just tell him you can no longer be in a relationship with him because he won't fulfill your expectation of sex and then breakup. Pretty simple.