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Thread: Is she into me!? Please help! (frustrated)

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    Is she into me!? Please help! (frustrated)

    Okay, so I'll try to make this post as small, and to the point as much as I possibly can. I recently broke up with my girlfriend and I've been going to parties to meet new single people. I ran across this girl at my friends house, and we got drunk together. I feel like we hit it off. A couple of weeks later, I go back to my buddies apartment, and of course she is there. She's already a little drunk, so I decide it's probably best that I have a few drinks to even up the score. We end up getting really flirty, and start talking about past relationships. (we both are going through a breakup right now but are trying to move on and meet new people.) We are both drunk enough to know what is going on, but we are a little shy. We cuddle up on the couch together, and we're both being pressured to kiss each other (They tell me that she wants me to kiss her, but I don't know if thats a lie for me to just make a move.) I don't have a problem with this at all. I like this girl, so I push her chin up, and we have a brief kiss with a little tounge. Then another peck a few moments later. I'm just not sure if she likes me or not. She goes home, and we hug, and I leave to go back to my apartment. I tell her that I'm interested in hanging out again and she also says that she'd like to hangout after she does her homework for college. We usually hang out at my friends apartment, but he is gone, and won't be back until much later, so I decide to go in for a move. I ask her if she'd like to come to my place, because it's only 5-10 minutes from her place. She agrees, and comes over rather late. The fact that she even came over with barely knowing me makes me think that she is interested, but I can't be for sure. We are not as touchy as last time, but I can't tell if that is because were both not drunk, or because she isn't interested, or if it's because she isn't sure if I'm interested. When she left it was probably 2 in the morning or so, we both shared a lot of laughs of the our favorite show 'Workaholics.' but it was time that she got back to her place because she had school in the morning. We hug, and it's a tight hug, and as she pulls aways she sort of looks at me as if she expected me to kiss her. With the mixed signals I felt like I was getting, of course I didn't kiss her... Was that a mistake, or am I just thinking about this way too hard? I really ****ing like this girl, and I'd like to try to build a relationship with her, but I just don't know if she's into me like that or not. She says that I'm very attractive when we were drunk, but that's because I told her she is very attractive. If you took the time to read this, thank you very much. I know I'm new to this forum, but I feel like this is a good community, and that I might get some good feedback. What do you guys think? Any feedback is welcome. Thank you Loveforum!

    Your friend, Chase.

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    Yes, she likes you. Go for it!

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    Oh id say she likes you she would spend so much time with you otherwise. If you go in fir the kiss when you ate both sober and she receives it well congrats. however if at that point she says no or backs off you can apologise graciously and be a man about it. But my guess is she is into you xx

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    it sounds pretty obvious to me there's some chemistry there, it's a good starting point. where it goes from here is all up for grabs, but you have a foot in the door. enjoy and see where it takes you.

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