Breakup

[Janet62]

I have been texting my ex just as friends for awhile. One time I told him I didn't feel like a priority in his life. Then nothing all messages stopped even on my birthday. A friend told me the way he was treating me was cruel . So I sent him one last text that said that I was moving on with my life. And that he needed to grow a spine and the only priority in his life was himself. And the next time he felt like contacting me don't.Was I wrong to be so cruel ?

[dontaskme]

If he's an ex, why do you think you should be a priority in his life?

Maybe you're the one who needs to grow a spine and leave this man alone.

[Janet62]

Hey he contacted me first

[basilandthyme]

Only problem with your story is that you're misrepresenting yourself. You weren't texting him just as a friend - you were sexting. And texting repeatedly during the day. THIS IS NOT FRIENDSHIP so don't be all hurt and pretend that he was a bad friend.

Anyway, you did the right thing ending it. But you're doing the wrong thing blaming him for not being there for you. He's an ex and he doesn't need to be there for you. And if it was just as friends, then you're being one hell of a needy friend. I don't even text my BFF as much as you wanted this guy to respond.

Stop lying to yourself about what this was

[dontaskme]

Ahhh, now I get the real scoop. If I were him, I'd dump you too as a sexting friend. Who needs a needy, clingy friend? Next time you seek for advice, give the full story woman!

[Janet62]

Hey he contacted me first

[basilandthyme]

It doesn't matter who contacted who first. This is about your ongoing expectations of him - which are extremely unrealistic

[dontaskme]

You appear like a desperate, pathetic woman right now who is willing to be used for sexting purposes just to get attention from an ex. Don't you have any self respect whatsoever?

Don't you get it? He doesn't want you that's why he stopped sexting you. He's moved on before you even threatened him that you were going to move on. Get you act together woman!!

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I'm sure he had fun having you as a sexting buddy but as soon as you imposed those unrealistic expectations on him, like you were his girlfriend, he dumped you, again.

[Janet62]

Ok ok your right but he always texted me back

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But how do I get over him

[dontaskme]

Get off your ass and your phone... Go to the gym, exercise to sweat your butt off instead of letting your fingers do all the work texting. Good Lord, don't you have a life outside of sexting?