24 year old never been on a date

[Mike Mike]

Hi everyone,

Just feeling pretty down lately, or rather the past 24 years. I'm a 24 years old guy, I look pretty decent, tall, not fat, pretty gentlemanly, and I think I'm a treat my friends, expecially the opposite sex really well. I frequently get feedback that I'm quite considerate when treating them. I'm actually a really bright guy from a well respected family, very well educated and I must emphasis very well educated, with a potentially bright and successful future.

However, I have never had a date in the past 24 years before. I had never bothered asking anyone out for the past 5 years! Was never really interested in anyone, but lately, I'm on a short attachment at a foreign countryand I got pretty lonely. Recently I became interested in 2 girls. First one is an escort(yes I have resorted to escorts since I could never get a girl in a normal way).

I have seen this escort girl for 3 times, apart from the first meeting there was no other physical relationship. I found out that she was actually a really sweet girl after I talked to her at the end of the first meeting. So I decided to make a 2nd trip back there, but just to talk. We ended up talking for a bit, and exchanged email address. I sent her a couple of emails after that, but she never replied. Went to see her the 3rd time, had a great conversation again, she claimed she never received my email, it must have ended up in the bulk folder or something. We exchanged phone emails then, and said we should meet up for dinner sometime. When mailed her on her phone a couple of times, but only got a reply a week later. Then I decided to ask her out for a meal, didn't receive any reply. Now I think she was more interested in the money than actually getting to know me. But i'm surprised that she would disclose personal information about her family, real name etc to me if she wasn't interested. Perhaps I read the signs wrongly. Now I'm pretty sure I will not visit her establishment again as she is probably just entertaining me and hoping that I would pay to visit her again.

2nd girl is someone at work. Great personality, but I just don't know how to ask a girl out. We have went out as a group before, I always make every effort to sit as around her. She's about 8 yrs my senior. I haven't really failed yet, just haven't tried yet. I'm not usually a shy person, but I get really shy around ppl I have interest in.

I'm not looking for any advice or sympathy, just like to express myself anonymously. Perhaps tonight I'll sleep a little better. Thanks

[Lloyd95]

Hi welcome. You can't date a prostitute; yes, all she wants is your money.

Never date a co-worker.

Geez isn't there anyone else for you?

[shh!]

Dumb question: do "escorts" have sex with men? I thought they were just rent-a-date girls, not prostitutes...

[Lloyd95]

Dumb question: do "escorts" have sex with men? I thought they were just rent-a-date girls, not prostitutes...

Oh my naive Shh!......

yes, they have sex for money.

[shh!]

How do you know? Hmmm??

[Lloyd95]

I'm a male escort??

[Lloyd95]

How do you know? Hmmm??

No seriously, I work in finance. George W. has crippled this economy, so I feel it is my duty to help stimulate economic growth. By god, escorts need work too!

[shh!]

Male escorts being PAID? Why pay for what any woman knows she can get for free? Which reminds me, why do men pay for what they can get for free? There are plenty of slutty girls out there...

[Tone]

Be happy you have girls you're interested in... I wish I could meet someone I was interested in, aside from bluesummer who lives 9 gabillion miles away from me... well and shh! who is married and lives in CA... and well misombra who lives in NM and has a b/f... and of course Arty, who lives in Boston.. and well OV too.. but I'm not a virgin so I have no chance

;[

[Lloyd95]

There are plenty of slutty girls out there...

yeah? Where?

Totally not the same.

[Lloyd95]

Be happy you have girls you're interested in... I wish I could meet someone I was interested in ;[

um, yeah, but one's a hooker.

[shh!]

yeah? Where?

Totally not the same.

What, a prostitute is superior to a slut? What is not the same?

[Lloyd95]

No, I meant women can get sex for free (anytime), men cannot.

[shh!]

Well, okay - maybe you have to buy her a cheap bottle of wine...

[Ekips]

You probably haven't spent time on women, so don't feel down about it.
Good things come to those who wait.
Um, note, that I didn't read your post, but I can pretty much infer what you said.