Confused about a guy, I don't understand him

[she.smiles]

Hey everybody!
I'm new on this forum, first of all I would like to apologize about my English!! I'm not very very good with it. And also because I'm a 'short story teller'.
I have some love problems, and this is the story, I tried to make it short, but I couldn't

Well, I met a guy on October 2013, a friend of mine introduced him to me, but it wasn't planned, the situation was just pretty spontaneous. We talked for some minutes, and found out that we have lots of things in common, (the important ones, like careers, beliefs, hobbies, dreams and stuff). I kinda have like a love at first sight thing, he was very cute, but also was very unique, and talked a lot, without putting any obstacles on the dialogue.
After that we lost contact, I added him on facebook some months later because i wanted to invite him to take pictures with me in an event (we study similar careers, related with media, photography and cinema). He accepted and was very excited; Suddenly he started liking all my facebook status and photos, and commented all the time. Then he messaged me almost everyday on facebook, and finally he gave me his number so I could add him on whatsapp and we could talk a little bit more.
So we started messaging each other almost everyday, from the "Good morning, have a nice day" to the "Goodnight, sleep well". He sent me stupid selfies, cute songs and stuff. But! He never talked about some meeting between us... He just sent me lots of messages, and that was all. So I didn't understood if he was just nice with me, or of he wanted "something more than friends".
So, suddenly we stopped messaging, and after a month or so, I tried to recover the relationship, because I noticed that he was the one that always messaged me...

Well, we lost contact, I messaged him and he told me to have a meeting together, I was pretty excited about this, because I waited like a year for this, so we planned the whole thing. That day, I asked him about what we were going to do because the weather was bad and the place we were going to go was 'open air'. And he said that "I'm sorry, but my friends bought tickets to go to the cinema, and I totally forgot it. I'm Sorry!!". So the 'date' or whatever it was, didn't happened... That was 2 weeks before he left, he was going to travel for three months. He insisted to see me before he left, but I could'nt make it because I had all my finals on those two weeks .

Finally... He travelled for 3 months, and on those months we messaged a little bit (I was the one messaging him, because I supposed that he was going to be busy and just enjoying travelling, and I wanted to know how he was). On his final week week there, he answered me that he was very happy, and asked me if I wanted to go to a concert with him when he got back here.

He came back 2 weeks ago, and he told me about the concert again, but I'm not pretty sure. The concert it's in another city, and he offered his car so we could go and save some money (travelling by bus has become very expensive these days). The event it's on April, and it's a musician that we really like, but I'm not a suuuper fan. The fact of travelling 9 hours or more alone with him it's weird, just because we didn't see each other more than 4 or 5 spontaneous ocassions with a lot of people around us. Never alone, just the two of us.

I'm very insecure about a lot of things, because he's very popular and handsome, and he's very nice, but just appears ocasionally with a cute song or lovely messages... But never tell me about having a date or something.

What do you think? About him and his feelings? and should I go to the concert or what can I do?
Any advices are welcomed, I'm confused and lost. And If you have more questions I can answer...

THANKS!

[inalielle]

i would just say honestly, do not meet up with him. you should take care of your safety first. if he forgot about your meeting before, he will surely do the same thing again on the second meeting. so just let it go, it is for your own good.

[Wakeup]

Why not just explain to him that because you don't know much about him that before you go on a 9 hour car ride with him, you'd really like to get to know him a bit better first and would he like to just grab dinner one night or even a drink/coffee and spend some time with one another before the concert?

If he turns you down, then don't go with him anywhere else and you should probably just forget about him altogether.