How to talk to my boyfriend about his erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation
My boyfriend of 4 months has problems holding an erection, he is semi soft and cannot penetrate me and after touching his penis to make him hard I can barely get him inside me and he comes in 3 to 5 seconds. Often even before he penetrates me.
He pleases me orally and makes me come but I miss intercourse.
He never talks about it and I don't know how to approach this topic. I want to know if he has seen a doctor or if he is willing to seek help.
I feel I haven't had "real" sex for a while and I miss it.
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24-03-15, 08:27 PM #1
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How to talk to my boyfriend about his erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation
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24-03-15, 09:03 PM #2
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The answer to this question lies in your other post [url]https://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/94421-boyfriend-disturbing-online-behaviour-cheating.html#post1009599[/url]
He's having online sex with strangers and is all spent by the time he's with you. Either that, or he's conditioned himself to respond to his hand and a streaming video and can no longer get off with a real girl.Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.
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25-03-15, 07:06 AM #3
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Your boyfriend of FOUR MONTHS?
I know for certain that he is not the only man in Canada so dump his ass. Anything less then dumping him is just a waste of your time.“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
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25-03-15, 04:09 PM #4
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If sex is a huge deal to you & him lasting longer maybe you two are not for each other ~ I don't know your other issues haven't read.
It's either physical health issue or a mind issue ( thinking trying too hard & loses erection because in his big head too much )Last edited by breathe123; 25-03-15 at 04:27 PM.
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25-03-15, 06:11 PM #5
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It's neither of the above Breathe. He can't do it because he's too busy cheating
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Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.
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27-03-15, 08:32 PM #6
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Ooooooooo- K that isn't good. Much bigger worries with that. Thank you for explaining, basilandthyme.
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22-04-15, 08:08 AM #7
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just sit him down and dont be a bitch about it lol
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22-04-15, 07:52 PM #8
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You should probably break up with this guy pronto before he gives you something a good antibiotic won't get rid of. Seriously, erectile dysfunction isn't his problem. It's cheating.
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22-04-15, 08:34 PM #9
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Old thread!
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.
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