So I have such a crazy complicated situation going on its almost unbelievable. I know many on here will hate me, but I want opinions rather than just abuse.
Its a long story too.
I am 28 and last August I started working for a new gardening company and met a 47 year old woman who is married, she was very friendly.
We worked together and got on very well, and became friends. We had to communicate a bit over work stuff, and chatted away and met up for coffee occasionally if both in town at the weekend.
We started chatting on text about all sorts everyday and when working together a couple of times a week we would laugh and giggle all the time. Despite the age gap we just appeared to have clicked with each other.
As time went on we continued meeting occasionally and chatting like casual friends, until one night when out with friends she text me saying she missed me, and that she could not say why without getting into trouble. Then that we were good at talking but avoiding the issue. I guessed at that point she had feelings for me. I realised over time I did for her too. Our texts now had some flirty innuendo’s in them.
This was brushed under the carpet and things continued the same way until after Christmas. When we both left the gardening firm and because we get on so well, we decided to start our own business A few weeks into starting our business we joked in the tough times we would need a hug, which we then hand. It lingered longer than a normal pals hug.
We then began hugging more and more, our eye contact was long and intense. One night it came out over text that we had feelings for each other and we needed to talk. We met and discussed things and she said she thought about me more than any other friends. We agreed nothing physical could happen.
However things have got more intense. Since then we have grown closer and closer, we work together each day, laughing, we hug face to face for long periods and often, we cuddle now side by side and she rests her head on my chest and holds me around my waist, we touch each other so often and feel so relaxed with each other.
I have via text said I love her, she says thank you but never says it in return, however the way she looks at me and touches me plus her love of snuggling up to me, I guess she must feel the same way to some extent.
Our business is booming and above all we are great friends with so much in common.
So rather than just abuse me. Give me some thoughts on whether she does Love me, and where we are.