I know this girl at work. We are friends and I haven't tried to be more than that. She said we should have lunch and we did. We had a good time and she said we should do it again. Then she suddenly stopped returning my texts. After some time we talked and she said she was worried we would get too close. I told her I just wanted to be friends and we were good. Then a few days ago we got into it over something small. And I mentioned we don't talk that much anymore. To which she says "why is that messed up were not dating." Any thoughts?