Losing Control

[Maleber]

Oh god, i don't understand what i did wrong. My new gf i dated on Friday just dumped me to be friends. We've known eachother for a year and a half. She didn't want to "hurt my feelings" and her mom had to call me (we're 14). Im losing control of what i should do, im very emotional right now. What did i do wrong? We went to the movies, the only things i've ever done that could make her feel uncomfortable is hold her hand (stroke it) and put my arm around her. I asked her a couple of questions like when it would be okay to kiss her. Then i called back later and told her that i shouldn't have done that and that it was wrong for me to ask those kinds of things, at least yet.

What can i do?

[Late_vamp]

your too young to date , wait another 4 years , then you and your dick will be grown enough to date .

[misombra]

don't sweat it, you'll have many more girlfriends in your lifetime.

[gHEXjt]

You probably didn't do anything wrong. Don't worry about it dude. Like was already said, you're 14. There'll be plenty of other girls and this isn't something for you to worry about. I know it hurts, just give it a little bit of time. Nobody likes to get dumped, but it happens. Don't beat up on yourself, you're too young to freak out about this kind of thing. Just start hitting on other broads.

However, it is quite bizarre that she had her mom do it. Maybe her mom just didn't approve of her daughter having a bf at such a young age and the girl was too upset to break up with you. Who knows. Just move on.

[Ellynn]

You both are very young. You have plenty of years ahead of you for dating.

You did nothing wrong but this girl clearly wasn't ready for a relationship. And theres nothing wrong with her choice either.