Cheating

[Lozfc]

I've been with my bf for 18 months and generally speaking hes a nice enough guy. He was never my usual type as he is not particularly good looking and certainly not the best specimen of a guy body wise but I was fed up of players etc.
Anyway recently I have been getting closer to my gym instructor to the point that I know something would happen between us if I wanted.
He is so good looking and has an amazing body but I do not think he'd be a great boyfriend as he's too much of a player.
My boyfriend knows him too and Dan, the instructor ridicules my bf as he is a lot weaker and smaller than him etc.
Anyway my question is how can I prevent being attracted to him and is a one off really a bad thing?
Lauren

[Bellinda]

I always claimed if you love someone, you love him the way he is. And you see only him. Others, no matter how perfect they are, doesn't attract you. When I'm inloved or love someone, I don't see anyone else. Excuses like "i was drunk" and similar, just doesnt make sense to me. If you find other one attractive, your bf isnt the one for you or he doesn't give you what you need. Try to figure out whats the problem and solve it, or dump your bf and do whatever you like. If you cheat, it'll be great for a while.. but after that, guilt will eat you. Or you'll get in loved with Dan, and he will probably just use you.. Goodlooking instructor... Probably flirts with more than one girl. Been there done that.

[Lozfc]

Yeah I agree totally with your post. Just difficult being in this situation.

[megvoh]

Fact he makes fun of your bf and does it right to you says the guy is a douche bag and rude that should put you right off him for starters, fact it doesn't should make you rethink if you should be with your current bf.