Be honest

[fine for my age]

Is it possible for a man to remain friends and only friends…no hanky panky with a woman he had an affair with a year ago……followed by many suggestive e-mails. My guy says they are just "f_king with each other". The e-mails mean nothing. E-mails where he tells her she has amazing boobies……..she is hot……he is elated to be able to see her soon. So…..she comes to town….he goes out to see her (we live together)……..says he took her out to dinner and to a casino. I texted him twice……he took over an hour to get back to me each time.

[dollhouse]

Yes, but only if she has no interest in him that makes it a lot easier on his part. He shouldn't EVER bring up her breasts, body or any sexual innuendo at all because that disrespect you and her partner if she has one. Isn't about just fu cking around with each other is about respect and not crossing boundaries that friends don't do with each other.

Why were you excluded from dinner and the casino?

[fine for my age]

I asked to go with but my partner said she didn't want to meet me. He also is afraid of how the two of us would act once we meet…….granted I hate everything I know about her…..and he has told me she hates me…why? I think he should drop all ties with her………since they crossed the line.

He says it was not an affair as he told me he was going to se her….and he did…..but how did it get to that point?

[Showmesomelove]

I think he should show you more respect....and to be honest, it sounds a bit fishy