After an amazing year and half, my boyfriend and I had a blow up which resulted in him backing off (which was a build up of a few tiffs we had). He practically lives with me and a lot of his stuff is here, but he hasn't come around in the past couple of weeks. We tried spending time together and he LOOKS like he feels guilty about something and he doesn't really seem like he wants to hug or kiss me. We didn't even have sex after seeing each other for the first time in 3 days.
I feel like something else is wrong that he did and now it's just meaningless texts every day about how we're both hurting and have to "figure things out" but he's not willing to truly talk to me or see me to work things out.
Will he EVER come out with what's really going on? He said we're making things worse be being together and the distance hurts but he said he doesn't want to break up with. I've also spoken to his sister who just told me take it one day at a time and she knows he loves me. But we can't work on anything if we're not together.
Is there a point for guys where they finally burst and come out with what they did to change a relationship?
This is a very serious relationship - his family is 100% involved and I told his sister I want to be with him but he doesn't want to be with me. I don't want to bail on him because I want to know where this is going AND all of his stuff is at my house. I also cried to him and promised I wouldn't leave him, so now what do I do? Just go about my life til he spills what's really causing his distance??