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Thread: What's with his behaviour? Very confusing to say the least?

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    What's with his behaviour? Very confusing to say the least?

    I went on a date with this guy about a month ago, he picked me up, took me to one of his favourite bars.
    The whole date, he seemed nervous, tapping and nodding his head quite fast. We talked about everything, from food to family and he asked me about places I've been here (because I'm new to the city) and possible places to go in the future, what movies/tv shows I watch and which ones he should show me. He asked if I use the app viber because apparently he does. He asked what I was doing the next day. He dropped me home and he asked me to text him the next day about what I was doing and before I even got inside, he texted me thanking me for the night and that it was a pleasure to meet me; I agreed and he said something. I was busy as I was going away on holiday, so we didn't speak for some time, I left it at that. A few weeks on, nothing. So I texted him about a few weeks ago and offered about catching up, he agreed to do so, even though I was still away. He told me to have a safe flight on my way home and that he would come and see me, he then added a kiss emoji. I notice on social media, whenever I like something particular, he will then go and like the same thing and I can see it. For example, I will like 3 girls in bikinis (example) and then not that long after, he will do the same, so I can see.

    It's been over 2 weeks now since I've heard from him. However, he likes my social media photos and I regularly see him on viber, at times we both will be on and it's almost like we both wait to see who will go offline first. I will go offline, for example and then go back on and I noticed he's gone of and then come back on again.

    I've come to the realisation that also, he could be a muslim. His first and last name definitely sounds Arabic, so there's a chance religion issues etc could be in the way as well.

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    If it's been over a month since he last asked you out then I'd say he's not interested in having another date with you... for whatever reason that may be, it really doesn't matter so just move on and do your best to stop cyber following/stalking him so that you get over even caring "why" at all.
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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    You know, when it flows it flows. This 'date' sounded like it didn't go comfy natural and when it is a good fit, these things feel right, flow right and there is no room for misinterpretation.

    Chalk it up to an experience and don't get wrapped up in anything. Let it go and move forward.

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