problem...help

[stealthninjax]

hi, im confuse right now...i don't really know what to do. I've been dating this girl for like a month and we made out n stuff. She told me she likes me and she enjoy hanging out with me but she doesn't consider us as anything but friend. She sees me as a long term friernd rather than long term lover. Normally i woudln't mind... but the problem is i really like her and want to be more than friend. Hearing her sayign tat we should only be friend is drivng me crazy.... any advice on what i should do? thanks

[TremblingBluSta]

Don't let it drive you crazy!

I'd advise you let things go for now. At least she wants your friendship, if nothing more. Take it, and be thankful. If, after getting to know you she decides she wants more, then great. I simply wouldn't waste my time waiting around for her.

I'm assuming there is some kind of physical attraction for her, otherwise the "making out" would never have happened.

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Tell her how you feel. If she doesn't like it or is uncomfortable with it, well... then she should of made out with you.

You'll have to tell her how you actually feel and then gauge her response. But if she just wants to be friends now, that might not change. But, then again, it might.

Talk to her.

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