someone explain this relationship of he ll....

[pendogg]

okay, long and complicated story, but i believe this girl needs an answer:
this is their 1st long term relationship (2 and half yrs and going...). from the begining the guy have numerous, "frens" of the oppsite sex. it didn't catch on her attn too much... she soon found out the truth bout these "frens." most of them were girls online who claim to be his gf. didn't matter much to her, it was "online". never met. after 4 mns together, he looks for girls in town. met some 16/17 ( at the time he was 20 and she 18) through phone chat line. trouble starts, fights and argrument. broke up. days later he came crying back. she stupidly took him in. things went okay for awhile, just when things were fine, found out he's talking to some girls again. one for 3 weeks and they were supposely dating, but never seen each other. she stay even while he was on the phone with the other girl, and she beside him, he told that girl she noone but his psycho ex... somehow, things work out. months later, relationship still rocky. she got her place, he stays over, she goes to work. he stays and talk to girls. girls call her house asking for a milion diffrent names that he has given. not much could be done, he won't stop. pick her up one day from work and show her a quick pic(those pic stand) of him and his "classmates" which he took out to the mall. she tore it up. he have a fit. next day he's in school. girl call and ask for diff name. she question. girl says he took them out to mall and have a pic with him. she's torn apart. she pick him up. confront him bout his "classmate who supposely know him over a year, but don't know his name". he's mad. they fight. soehow made up. sontinue on. next year, not much girls, but a lot of fights. these agrument are daily and begin to become physical. after a year of it. technically broke up for 8 mn. (fren w benefit) then just when the girl made her mind up to leave after rekindling w her past. talk over and decide he really loves her. girls didn't really want to, but decide if he ever do something she leave. 2 months later she's still with him. not much changes. a few girls, a little less fight. a more agreeable guy... but still don't love her completely. love her but not in love with...in love with a high skool crush some 9 yrs before. crush knows nothing. (it's one of those something bout mary. her name happen to be mary... he wants her cause she's devoted, never cheats, loves him to death, does everything for him. care for him. she's smart, give love advice all the time. she knows what's best. she knows is dumb of her to be around. she don't wanna b round. she wish she can leave. but she love him so much. always hope and wish it would be different...though she knows reality....

[pendogg]

now tell me what's wrong with this picture. he seem to love and care for her. he's a very nice man, to everyone else, but her. he's perfect in every other girls' eyes.but her. she's alone in a town she been for 3 yrs. not much close fren w her. she thinks it's company. but even with new frens, she needs him and he provide these needs.