Just when I was trying to get over an ex girlfriend I got a message from her on Friday. She rang my office and mobile and seemed determined to get in touch. Pleasant chat and explained that she felt sad and remarked on us together. Seemed to want to apologise. Then nothing. Texted her this morning and just got abuse. I managed to get out of her she is starting to see someone else. I won't contact her again and wished her well. I don't understand why she made contact.
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08-09-15, 05:58 AM #1
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08-09-15, 11:56 AM #2
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Just to see if she could. Obviously, she found out. Don't respond again and if you love yourself, you'll block and delete her so that she can't contact you at all. If she calls you again at work, tell her to cease or you will have a restraining order placed on her.
She's nuts. Don't try to figure out "nuts." It will just make you just as.“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
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09-09-15, 07:35 AM #3
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Sounds good advice. What I cannot understand is why after a month of non contact (On her insistence) she seemed so intent on getting in touch. She seemed so angry and critical of me.
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09-09-15, 07:47 AM #4
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You for realz dude? She was mad at you for NOT contacting her...as she requested. Listen to the wise gal that posted up there ^^^. Block the unbalanced ex from further disruption of your harmoniousness and get on with the biz of your own life.
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Now I know why. I sent a really nice email accepting the end, wishing her well.. Within 10 minutes she contacted me again (Not my intention), was angry with me and said slept with another person when we were together. Blamed me for everything, that I had let her down for not showing enough attention. Then rang again and said didn't want to get back with me, further criticism, considered whether we would get back together and slammed the phone down.
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12-09-15, 06:22 AM #6
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Perfect...consider it as her having done you a huge favor. Emotionally immature people who make excuses for their own garbage behavior are not worth your time. I hope you are now ready to take the excellent advice that was offered you 4 days ago and block your ex from contacting you. Respect yourself.
Pain is what the world does to you, suffering is what you do to yourself. Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.
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12-09-15, 11:35 AM #7
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Send her a telegram that reads simply:
To: (Put psycho ex's name here)
From: Put your name here
"LMFAO"
Then block and delete her. Joking! (kinda)“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
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