okay so I'm going to try to explain this the best I can. I've been with my bf for 1 year & 8 months now. we have a very healthy relationship, I know I love him. he treats me great, does things for me, makes me breakfast, tries to make me feel good about myself. he's a great boyfriend except that..... he's never given me an orgasm. literally never. not from foreplay & not from sex. & he knows I've never orgasmed either, it's not like I'm sitting here faking it this whole time. he's well aware. I try to explain how I like it, & that I def need more foreplay, because I basically never get any foreplay towards me, but I go down on him lots. he almost still seems timid towards fingering me or eating me out. & I tell him to not be nervous & if he does ever try I tell him it feels good but he never does it for a long time. & then when it comes to sex, he doesn't last long in bed. usually from 2-5 min. & I can't orgasm from that cause it'll take me a bit longer. & then once he finishes it's game over for our sex for the day, I still go to bed unsatisfied. it's so frustrating because I know I can orgasm from sex because when I was with my ex bf I could orgasm 2-3 times during sex. so I know it's not that I'm incapable. I'm literally forced to just pleasure myself at home a lot because yes, I am a very sexual horny girl & I just don't know what to do