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Thread: What should I do?

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    What should I do?

    I have been in a relation with a girl for the past 6 yrs. We did graduation 2gedr and after 4 yrs she moved from my city. We were no longer in physical proximity. I will mention that there is a guy who's been after her for 11 yrs. Now before she moved, few months before, she started contacting this guy, and from what I know of him, he praises her al the time. Now I am a guy who is very simple. I love her a lot and care for her and nvr evn thot of cheating on her. Only few months back I came to know of this guy. I have ofcourse asked her to sever all ties with him. She said she will but nevr did. Few days back when I again asked her the same, she said she cannot cz he cares 4 her a lot. She then dumped me. Now I know I really dont deserve this. When I asked her if she loves him, she gave a mixed reply and said she doesnt want to discuss this topic. What should I do now? Should I chase after her and beg 2 take me back? Should I give up hope and accept the love of my life is gone forever? Or should I keep fighting for her?

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    Should I give up hope and accept the love of my life is gone forever?
    Yes, do that^^^
    ... Because its called acceptance that it's over and then you will be able to be open in heart and mind enough to find the NEW "love of your life."
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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