Can't last long durin sex

[Coollaxer]

I'm 18 and so is she, I can't last more than 5 minutes until I need to take a break, but I'm always on top and always thrusting. I ask her to ride and she just looks at me like she wants to stay on her back and doesn't want to ride bc she doesn't know how to really, she tries and my penis just pops out and asks me to go back on her back... Bit frustrating. But how can I train my self to last longer?

[lightstar]

You dont need to last longer. You need to figure out how to make her orgasm quickly. I personally hate if intercourse lasts too long. The vagina starts to get dry and it begins to feel uncomfortable or painfull after awhile.

My suggestion would be to touch her first or give her oral to make her orgasm before you have sex. Then you just need to focus on your own enjoyment.

Or you could try foreplay until she is "nearly there" and then try making her orgasm during sex.

You need to communicate and figure out what you both like. Try new things also and experiment

[benfletcher82]

5 minutes isn't bad. Most girls actually don't want you to last forever, sex isn't like porn at all! Maybe communicate what she likes and doesn't like instead rather than showing her the ol' death grip.

[Wakeup]

I'm 18 and so is she, I can't last more than 5 minutes until I need to take a break, but I'm always on top and always thrusting. I ask her to ride and she just looks at me like she wants to stay on her back and doesn't want to ride bc she doesn't know how to really, she tries and my penis just pops out and asks me to go back on her back... Bit frustrating. But how can I train my self to last longer?

Turn her over and do her from behind. You don't need to last longer if she's already had one orgasm before you even enter her. She needs to participate and if she's not willing then you take charge by taking her from behind.

Repeating for emphasis: Make sure she orgasms through oral or hand play before you use your penis.

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5 minutes isn't bad. Most girls actually don't want you to last forever,

Certainly most of us want you to last more then 5 minutes if we haven't orgasmed during foreplay... it takes a lot longer for us to pop through intercourse then it does you. Where did you get your information?

sex isn't like porn at all!

No, but it can be on occasion.

Maybe communicate what she likes and doesn't like instead rather than showing her the ol' death grip.

She's a starfish... and he has said she doesn't know how to be a good lover (yet). He needs to teach her how to be good.

If the book you are spamming in your signature is anything like your last post then it's not worth the band width you're using to spam it.

[Melo11]

All previous advices were useful, it's really depends on the experience. also BathMate can help you last longer

[benfletcher82]

Certainly most of us want you to last more then 5 minutes if we haven't orgasmed during foreplay... it takes a lot longer for us to pop through intercourse then it does you. Where did you get your information?

Should have rephrased that to some* then, my apologies. A lot of girls that I have talked to have said that they don't enjoy sex that lasts too long. I also misread the post, my bad!

No, but it can be on occasion.

It can be, but it doesn't have to be. People including virgins or people who are inexperienced with sex assume that porn translates over to real life, which is why I'm trying to clear the misconception.
She's a starfish... and he has said she doesn't know how to be a good lover (yet). He needs to teach her how to be good.

If the book you are spamming in your signature is anything like your last post then it's not worth the band width you're using to spam it.

I'm sorry if I hit a nerve, I didn't mean for my post to have a bad intention. Only trying to help.