Hey. I've been in off an on relationships with my boyfriend now for 9 years. We've been solid now for 3 years and now have a baby on the way. We already have relationship issues because the relationship is boring and very juvenile. I will be 30 and he'll be 32 at the end of the year. We go on dates maybe 4 times a year and when I mention it he gets extremely upset. He doesn't help me with any bills or anything and he works. When he gets off of work at midnight he comes straight in the house and gets on his computer for the next 3 or 4 hours. Sleeps until the afternoon and when he wakes he's back on the computer. Even nights where we may watch a movie or tv show he still has his laptop open and I have no idea what it is that he's doing. When I ask he gets upset (as always) and will say that he's working. We are both in school, him for internet marketing and me for computer animation. Though I have tons of work and studying on the computer I still make time for my relationship so that's no real excuse. He's a good guy but I am so annoyed. On top of that we have a baby on the way and i am so afraid that things between us are going to just get worse. This is the most boring relationship that I have even been in and life and I just don't know what to do anymore.