So here's the thing. I dated this guy for 3 years already. And around 2 months ago, I went overseas to continue my studies only to find out he cheated on me whilst I was there. I was only gone for 2 months and he already cheated on our 3 years of relationship?

But here's the background. Even few months before I went overseas, I admit our relationship wasn't as strong anymore. The communication wasn't as frequent and the only thing that's keeping it together was the dates. Now that I'm gone, we can't date anymore and BAM this happened. To top it off, The girl that he's seeing right now is known as a slut. I'm not badmouthing her, it's just that she's popular for that and everybody knows she's been sleeping around and she's a real sweet talker.

We just met few days ago to end everything clearly and he said that he loves this girl and the girl loves him back and that he wanted to meet her parents next month and he tried to explain to me that this girl is not like what everybody thought, he tried to clear her name. I don't know but, it seems pretty weird to me? You've only known this girl for a month and you already love her and all? Even when I was with him, one month into our relationship, we still had our awkward moments a lot.

A year into my relationship with him, he was CRAZY about me, he never had a long term girlfriend before, his longest relationship before me was only 6 months when he was like, 13, And he had A LOT of exes before me. Cut long story short, he was a complete heartbreaker. I'm pretty sure I'm his first serious love. And after I went overseas, I contacted him less and maybe that's why. He didn't get enough love from me and he started to open his heart up, and came this girl.

I was coping with this quite well until I came to a conclusion: maybe it's all my fault.

He smokes and likes to play poker and I've never been a big fan, and he met this girl who DOES both things and maybe that's why he thought, "Oh I share the same interests as her, she's the one, I can't even do this things when I'm with my gf."

But now I seriously can't stop thinking about him. I kept thinking this was my fault and I regretted it a lot. I know he cheated, but I MADE HIM do that. and I have a feeling that he's been brainwashed and blinded by this girl And I really don't know whether this girl is serious abt him or not. Also, when I met him to end things, he cried and he doesn't cry easily. Days before we met, He claimed he completely lost all his feelings toward me before but then he cried?? I am so confused right now and I REALLY don't know what to do?? Help and advice please?