Long story will give a quick summary
Recently divorced (me)
Hooked up with my manager (I know) just after I separated from ex, he said he didn't want a relationship with me.
Ff a few months, hooked up again weekly for a few weeks (all on my request)
Q1 why won't he ask to hook up?
One morning he asked, does it matter if people know about us now? I brushed it off, but now I'm thinking was this his way of ending it? We have only hooked up once since because I refuse to ask (I'm stating to feel desperate by being the one asking.)
Any insight would be great.
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14-04-16, 07:58 AM #1
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He is leaving the asking up to you because then it's your decision to screw him when you're not in a relationship. If you initiate then you can't blame him for not committing to you... After all, you asked for it.
Do you want to be a girlfriend to him now or are you content on being his fvck buddy?“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
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22-04-16, 02:37 PM #3
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He doesn't want a relationship with you. He made that clear by telling you straight up. People don't tell people they don't want a relationship with them, if they actually want one. That only happens in the movies and teenager's fantasies. If he wanted to be in a relationship with you, he would tell you. Stop the FWB thing, unless it's what you want and are comfortable with.
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I would love to be in a real relationship with this guy. I'm not happy to continue the way things are, I'm holding strong and not asking to hook up. He hasn't asked either.
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He is leaving the asking up to you because then it's your decision to screw him when you're not in a relationship. If you initiate then you can't blame him for not committing to you... After all, you asked for it.
Do you want to be a girlfriend to him now or are you content on being his fvck buddy?
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29-04-16, 10:54 AM #6
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There is an echo in here. O.o
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