Hi,
I have a complicated relationship with my ex gf. We were first introduced by a common friend and then we got to date each other for a short period of 3-4 months.
That short period lasted after she says she wants to break up with me due to our incompatibilty of personalities. After the breakup, we still maintained a good 'couple' relationship for about a month and then she has to go to Sweden for her Ph.d programme. She recently came back due to an expiry of her visitation pass but will be going back there shortly for a long period of 1-2 years. She sounded out to me just that she don't want to be in a relationship with me due to a certain reasons. One being the fact that i hurt her a few times back(not due to infidelity) and also that she is not willing to do a LDR.

I really loved this women and I have processed it in my thoughts alot of times that she is the one. mainly her good traits are what i have been searching for in a relationship this entire lifetime.
I really want her back and assure that I will do whatever it takes to keep her.

Pls advise. Thank you