what does this mean

[jason112]

i havent talked to my ex girl friend for 3 weeks. absolutly no contact. i didnt call her and she didnt call me. we broke up and she started seeing someone else, but we were so good together that i knew that she would realize that she had made a mistake..anyway she called me last night. just to talk and see how i was doing. it was basically small talk and things but does it mean anything? is she missing me missing us maybe realizing she made a mistake or was she calling just to call? any opinions would be great.. also should i now call her or continue the no contact where i dont call her at all? is she expecting me to call now? or is she not expecting anything?

thank you for any opinions

[Junsui]

Wow, relax. I know you want her back, but you said it was just small talk and just asking how you were doing right? Don't take it to mean something else right now. I probably wouldn't start calling, you might get carried away and call too much

[gHEXjt]

Stick with the no contact. If she had something to say she would have said it. I learned the hard way in a situation like this recently. She just doesn't want you to forget about her. If she keeps calling you, then maybe she's regretting her decision. But it's best if you stay no contact, and not be friends with her. It will continue to make you feel as if there's a chance, and in all honesty, if she's with someone else, there's no chance.

[whaywardj]

As long as she's seeing someone else, there's really no good purpose being served by keeping in contact so soon after the breakup.

[inkeepingsecret]

She was probably just feeling bad for you, sorry to say. She probably cares about you but not in the way you want her to.

She is NOT expecting you to call.
She is not expecting any kind of reaction.

In fact, that was a bit mean of her to call you.

Oh, and it doesnt matter if you were 'good together' or not, the fact is, that was the past, and now SHE IS SEEING SOMEONE ELSE. You keep doing this to yourself. There is no need to get all worked up over nothing.

You need to try and get her out of your head and FINALLY move on.

jesus

[TAVS]

Yea, that didnt mean anything. Continue with the No contact. Move on and don't dwell on the past unless she actually says, 'I want you back"

[pepsi55]

Move on find someone else make sure your seen with her and then she will want you back but dont get back with her say no and break her heart like she as done you!

Best way ive learnt!

[Lloyd95]

I think we need more info. How old are you two? How long did you date? Why did you break up? Who broke up with who?
Until those ?'s are answered, I'd say go with the No Contact rule too.

[carpflounder]

Just put it in her butt.