Should i return to my Ex GF

[voltrex]

We met on a dating site and dated for 3 month.
i really cared for her and we did have sex (virginity) and i was stressed (studies) and i was a afraid from love.
So i sent her a massage i want to quite because i am not feeling ready.
She said okay.
She kept my photo in Instagram and still single.

I know she loved me as well. should i fix it and if yes then how?

now after 4-5 month later i think she was my only love.

please give me advice.

[dollhouse]

Speak from your heart and tell you how you feel.. that is the best thing at this point, being honest with how you feel about her and that you were scared before but feel you are ready now and would like another chance with her.

[Mentor]

only you know is it worth fixing... listen to your instinct, it will tell you what to do. if you decide to try get her back, then just text her that you want to meet up and catch up

[Mikelo]

Just go talk to her. You should tell her how you exactly feel.

[voltrex]

I have sent her a massage asking if there is a chance we could meet up and talk, since i was thinking about what we had.
but she just ignored it.
imo if i pressed hard on her (calling her or more massages) , she would accept to meet me or just to talk to me.
but on the other hand maybe she never cared for me and it was good for us to break up.

either way i am moving on.

[dollhouse]

You mean... " message " I am sure because massage means something entirely different.

Do you think she ignored because she was too busy, never saw it it got lost among other messages or she deliberately ignored you? If the latter then do not send her anymore..she can reach out since you were the last to send her something. Sorry it didn't work out.

[voltrex]

i have sent her a message lol on whatsup. and she recieved it.
i know she is not busy and probably thought about me as well but she moved on and saw no reason to reply me

it is very hard to find the woman you love because of who she is and not pointless sex.