Your opinion

[sm400]

I'm back together with someone that I really care about. About 8 years ago she left me for another guy. While with him they went on vacation and she got a clit ring. Now back together this is a constant reminder of him. I have asked her to ditch it but she immediately refused. This sticks in my side to the point where I've struggled to remain in this relationship. You're opinion?

[juanf]

just let it go, if you want this to work, dont bring up the past, remember this should be a fresh start

[lovebroken]

Just the fact you don't like it when being intimate should be enough for her to remove it while you two have sex and so on but the added thing being she got it for or with him, yeah she should remove it and replace it afterwards. Is it for her sexual pleasure, is that way she has it, and does she only have sex with you, because it removes your sexual pleasure because it bothers you.