I have a crush on someone in my acting class and he looks about 28 but I found out he is around 37. I am 23 but I look around 25-28 and am mature for my age (chalk it up to a hard life). I usually date older guys, but the oldest was 29. I really feel like we have a connection - it was one of those deals where we met and instantly felt like we'd known each other forever.
Anyway, do you think any reasonable guy would go for this situation if he were attracted to the girl or is this morally wrong or something? My grandmother was 16 years younger than my grandfather and people are always at least a little surprised when I tell them that. Maybe it runs in the family. ;-) Any advice?
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12-10-05, 07:52 AM #1
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Would any 37 yr old guy be flattered if a cute 23 yr old wanted him?
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12-10-05, 07:59 AM #2
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go for it.
screw physical age, maturity is what counts (once they are over 18 of course
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12-10-05, 08:01 AM #3
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Let me put it this way. Every old guy wants a younger woman. Why do you think rich old men marry hot young girls in their 20s. Just go for it!
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12-10-05, 08:08 AM #4
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Age is just a number....and your an adult......so go for it!
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12-10-05, 09:32 AM #5
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My best friends fiance is 12 years older than her, he's actually closer to her mom's age. But, again, when you're adults, it really doesn't make a huge difference. Go for it.
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12-10-05, 10:03 AM #6
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Sounds wonderful. Don't let yourself miss the opportunity.
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12-10-05, 01:35 PM #7
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awesome! thanks everyone, that's really encouraging. ill let you know it goes.
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12-10-05, 01:45 PM #8
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He's not married or anything right?? And he is straight right??
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Not trying to be rude by asking.....but just making sure....
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12-10-05, 02:25 PM #9
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actually im not sure! I don't think he's married, but if he is I obviously won't put myself in that situation. and I don't think he's gay but he is really into performing arts so you never know. ha.
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Oh. NOW somebody starts thinking of provisos. Just when you were starting to feel a little giddy and excited.
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12-10-05, 02:27 PM #11
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Only reason I asked is because in high school I was in drama and was into this guy who was one of the actors.... But then found out he was um....gay.... Had no clue...in fact I don't think he did at the time either.....but it all came out eventually.... At least now I know WHY i was rejected......
Doesn't mean he is though....but try to find out the background scoop on him before doing anything drastic....like asking him out. That way it saves the trouble of being embarrassed or having any....awkwardness...Last edited by Ellynn; 12-10-05 at 02:34 PM.
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12-10-05, 03:21 PM #12
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Man want younger girls because they are hotter. Your question can not be answered untill a picture is viewed by me...of you.
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True, many 37 year old men would want to f*ck a 23 year old, but not all 37 year old men would want to KEEP a 23 year old. Ideally, there should be some gap in life experience and personal development, despite what you claim is an exceptional maturity level on your part. If there is no difference in that area, personally I would be concerned.
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12-10-05, 10:57 PM #14
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So you say you're "cute", eh? Prove it, post up a pic, then come back
Oh, and I don't think you should go any older than 35 years old; which I just happen to be...
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12-10-05, 11:05 PM #15
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He's probably married. But he's probably interested in you.
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