My girlfriend has told her friends I lack in the bedroom

[Jjsnyder]

I have been with my partner for 8 months now and we have been getting pretty serious. In the beginning of our relationship she told me many lies that it has taken me until now to find out about them. Some of these lies where pretty serious and have made me lose a lot of my trust in her. For this reason I looked through her text messages and I found she and her friend talking about how I had a little dick to two friends and even went as far as calling me bye the name "little dicky" whenever they talked about me with one of them. I am not on the small side however, actually I'm larger than what is considered average. Also she claims to have never seen anyone else's penis before, I do believe this is the truth. I also found with a different friend that she said I was "horrible at fingering." When I confronted her about this she said all she was doing was trying to act cool in front off her friends and that she didn't mean anything that she said. All this has made me extremely insecure about my performance in the bedroom even though she says I'm able to make her come multiple times during sex. I still fell very insecure because I know she could be lieing to me to spare my feelings. I don't know what to do whenever I'm in bed with her I feel insecure about my abilities. Any advice as to what I should do?

[pcmaster]

Well man it happens. I see many guys here who become insecure after their girl calls their penis small.
If your girl never seen real thing before then she knows only how they look in porn where everything is oversized.
Anyway its hard to lie to people ypu love and shes been disrespectful to you with calling you in that nickname.
After all this is how she affects you. Decide if shes the rigjt girl and you want to that kind of person around you.
If you take away her beauty, would you forgive her what she did? Maybe you are under beautiful women spell thats why dont see how bad she treats you. Or are forgiving these unforgivable things. Love without respect is like angel without one wing - it cannot fly.