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    What my next move... if there is a new move..

    Hey guys,
    So heres the deal. Met a girl in class and I asked her out. Her answer was "maybe" because she didn't want to say no to me but just started seeing a guy. We became friends through class but she would like every one of my insta, Facebook post within seconds and even admitted to stalking my Facebook and waiting for me after class (in prior semesters) to see if I would talk to her (which I didn't at the time). There was clear sexual tension between us and even her friends in the class could feel it. Last week, she found out her bf ( of 3 months, who lives 5 hours away from her) cheated on her, so they broke up. We went out to get drinks with her friends a couple of days later and she rally turned on the attention (even more than usual). We went out for st Patties and we made out, had a great time but she got upset over the breakup later in the night. The next day, she texted me saying that she wasn't ready to trust anyone etc. I told her id give her the space she needed... she then has texted or gotten in touch with me the next 4 days, even finding me at school to hang out. What do i do here? she knows I'm into her and she's into me, but not ready to commit.. am I wrong the think wishfully ?
    Thanks

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    This girl wants love and being seduced. They want a strong reliable man.

    If they push him away "the strong almost magical connection" will make the man seduce her still. Regardless of how distant she seems.

    It's almost like in some romance story book.

    I'd say those are very strong iois (indicator of interest)
    You will perhaps encounter some resistance - even last minute resistance.
    You could tell her about how you are hurt too and how you tried to not chase after her and failed. How you try to wait but you realize that you needed to go for her

    You get the idea

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