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Thread: Need some help! Fast! Totally confused!!

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    Need some help! Fast! Totally confused!!

    Well here it is: This girl who I like basically comes out and tells me she isn't looking for a bf or anything like that due to a number of reasons, yet she said that she has met someone she likes, but later on when we are chating she says she doesn't have a crush on him, and he isn't bf material, so she would never go out with him.

    All this time she keeps bugging me, and seems intent on finding out who I want to go out with. Could this be because she is interested in me or something? I'm really confused.

    Now she say's she wont talk to me till I tell her, though she recently broke that.

    Is she just messing with me here? Is this her telling me indirectly that she is interested in me? Or is she genuinely not interested in anyone in that way?
    Last edited by Antiants; 16-10-05 at 02:10 PM.

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    Ask her out on a date. quick and easy way to tell. If she says no ..then it's a no. You are probably in the friends zone.

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    Buddy, from my experience, girls generally want as many boys to follow them as possible. My quess is that this girl wants you on reserve. She will settle for you if she can't find anyone better, but doesn't have you as her first choice. Now it's up to you to decide what u would settle for.

    To put it in short form, I think she is messing with you.

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    Isamu is right. At a certain age girls are all for attention. I think she is trying to form a little buffet for her to pick the cutest guy from. And she is playing with your head.
    I think let her be and focus on something/body else for now.
    to err is human, to forgive divine

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