does she even like me?

[hi2u]

ok this story is really screwed up...
ive liked this girl named hannah for over 3 years now and she never liked me, but now that this other chick asheley likes me hannah has liked me for 4 months now(i know because im good friends with hannahs best friend emily). ive been flirting with hannah for a couple months now and i thought we were going somewhere

then she went on a weekend trip(which i guess she talked about me alot and bought me 2 presents) with emily and they were gone for a couple days. When they got back i guess i was flirting with asheley and hannah saw and didnt like it and got very upset that night.

she went on a date 2 nights later with this guy in are church who she sees rarely because there kindof friends i guess and he usualy makes the move on her and comes into are city and sees her, but this night she went to his house and watched a movie with him and i guess they held hands. is holding hands considered going out?

am i just freaking about this or is this ironic that she got mad at me because i flirted with asheley( me and asheley have been really good friends for over 1 year now) and she practically is going out with a kid now... p.s. asheley has liked me for awhile but lately i told asheley i liked hannah so asheley would back off and give me more space with hannah and i mightve screwed up my friendship with asheley and now hannah might not like me anymore... also hannah might be just liking me because some other chick likes me and is jelous that i still dont like her

hannah is a very flirty girl with all the guys.. im only 18 and havnt had many girl problems like this before so if any1 could help me that would help alot! hannah is also going to college in 4 months so im not even sure if i should get serious with her or not any help would be appreciated... THANK YOU

[Gigabitch]

Dude. You need to break this up into paragraphs. NOBODY is going to read that.

[dono]

No .

[anachronistic]

no. she doesn't like you. give up and move on.

[stevo032]

Longest sentence I ever didn't read.

And if you space it out maybe I'll consider it.

[anachronistic]

okay everyone:

please don't be spamming newcomer's threads by telling them to make grammatical corrections. if it's too messy to read, just don't read it. we really don't need that much negativity on here, do we?

[hi2u]

ok dam i had so many posts u guys got me all happy then i got this shit all above about the paragraph lol,anyways i fixed it

[hi2u]

y doesnt she like me if she talks about me alot and bought me 2 presents and no other guy? i know she likes me im just wondering why she went on this date with the other guy... maybe she likes me just normally and she can like any guy the way she does me or maybe she did this to make me jealous?

[anachronistic]

well she cares about you for sure, but if she liked you she would be dating you instead of the *other* guy.

• any girl that tries to make you jealous is not worth your time.

[hi2u]

ya true, her friend said that the date didnt mean anything even though they held hands but i guess ill try to back away ( so dam hard)
thank you

[anachronistic]

my advice to you is to not waste time waiting around for her. do things that YOU enjoy, and let her come to you.

[anachronistic]

^^ that, ofcourse, is said assuming she knows you like her.

[Gigabitch]

hi2u, you totally still have a chance with her. I don't know if she was trying to make you jealous or if she was just trying to forget you, but I'll bet she's still open to it.

Turn on the charm. Charm is yummy.

[stevo032]

It seems like Hannah might have gone with this other guy to make you jealous so that she didn't seem like she was longing for you.
And although she may or may not have gone on this date with an intention of starting a relationship, its apparent to me that this other guy may have won her heart.

If you really liked Hannah you should have made a move sooner.

Instead you hesitated and it sounds like you basically got the worst case scenario, you lost both girls/friends.

And I think now you only want Hannah because you don't want to feel like you've lost her.

I feel bad for that Ashley girl haha.

But I think apoligize is the most you can do at this point and hope for the best.

[The Great OV!!!]

• any girl that tries to make you jealous is not worth your time.

Sometimes shy girls resort to this when all else fails and the guy will not approach.