Confused......

[Gigabitch]

...he wanted a list of why and doesn't think my reasons are good enough to end a 7-year relationship and that I'm a heartless bitch!

Well, it takes two people to have a relationship and one person to end it. You don't need his permission.

[Sofia]

Well, it takes two people to have a relationship and one person to end it. You don't need his permission.

I sure don't!!

It really amazes me how a person can go from being mean to nice in an instant!! He's gone from calling me a heartless bitch (the night before when I told him it's over) to calling me boo-boo like nothing ever happened!! LOL

He's going through so much crap in his life right now, NOTHING is going right for him and me being the "sucky" person I am, do not have the heart to desert him...so I'm lending him a sympathetic ear....I'm still standing firm in my opinions however with everything that is wrong with him and our relationship.....He has emotionally drained me and he knows I mean business now.....one negative step towards me and he can kiss my behind goodbye.....

Has anyone known an angry/bitter person to change?

[Moonchild]

People don't change, and it's usually pointless to try. He doesn't deserve the chance you're giving him, however small.

[Sofia]

People don't change, and it's usually pointless to try. He doesn't deserve the chance you're giving him, however small.

I think a person can change if they *want* to.....I know I'm changing....If I give him a chance, it would be more for my satisfaction than his in knowing at least I tried.....

[Charlie Boy II]

you're not changing because you're obviously on your way to going back to the guy. You've had a temporary surge of strength which now seems to be rapidly seeping away. I would be willing to wager a large amount of money that it will be the same with your "reformed" boyfriend and his new attitude.

[Gigabitch]

It really amazes me how a person can go from being mean to nice in an instant!! He's gone from calling me a heartless bitch (the night before when I told him it's over) to calling me boo-boo like nothing ever happened!! LOL

That's nothing to LOL about. That sounds mighty ****ing familiar, and it actually turns my stomach.

When I was a kid, I actually found myself looking forward to my parents fighting, because we could be assured of quite a few "nothing ever happened" days after that, and those were the best.

Don't buy it, boo-boo. Listen, the one you have to worry about here is YOU. You're your own worst enemy in this circumstance. Did you tell your sister what's going on?