Does this mean anything?

[ransom_nite]

Ok long story short i've been with my girl coming up two years, she is the love of my life and i believe my soulmate. Recently she just broke down too me saying she is worried sick of losing me and its really hurting her, she said if she ever lost me she would literally die and that im too good for her blahh blahh. What's getting me is that worrying about something is a problem right? And to get rid of the problem you need to get rid of the cause? Im scared she's going too leave me does anyone know what this could mean?

thank in advice guys and gals

[ksjacobs]

if shes talking about losing you then i highly doubt she'd break up with you. just tell how strongly you feel about her and that she wont lose you unless she chooses too cos you'll always be there for her. telling her exactly how you feel is the best thing you can do right now cos she needs to be assured that you wont leave her.

[ransom_nite]

if shes talking about losing you then i highly doubt she'd break up with you. just tell how strongly you feel about her and that she wont lose you unless she chooses too cos you'll always be there for her. telling her exactly how you feel is the best thing you can do right now cos she needs to be assured that you wont leave her.

I have time and time again she says she believes me but she's still frightened. Hopefully this is just a phase and and will blow over so she will be back to herself because for (1) i dont like her being upset and (2) it's making me upset, gahhh.

[Zilla80]

Kind of weird to be coming up 2 years into the relationship... try to find out the REAL reason why she is so afraid she might lose you..

..is she hiding something??

[IndiReloaded]

Wow. She sounds really emotional & into drahma. Good luck with that. How old is this gal?

[1averagejoe]

Sounds insecure...

[ransom_nite]

Wow. She sounds really emotional & into drahma. Good luck with that. How old is this gal?

but shes not usually emotional and into drama, its only recently thats why its worrying me.

[ransom_nite]

How old is this gal?

oh sorry forgot to write this in last post, we are both heading into our twenties next year

[miSSleepy]

Actually, I got into the worrying phase at the 2 year mark as well. Because I couldn't imagine my life without my partner i started worrying really bad what would happen in that situation.

I got over it eventually. Have a talk to her about what has made her start to worry, if you have been doing anything to make her think it won't last, etc etc. Try to identify what the problem is, and reassure her. But don't make any blind promises.

[ransom_nite]

Actually, I got into the worrying phase at the 2 year mark as well. Because I couldn't imagine my life without my partner i started worrying really bad what would happen in that situation.

I got over it eventually. Have a talk to her about what has made her start to worry, if you have been doing anything to make her think it won't last, etc etc. Try to identify what the problem is, and reassure her. But don't make any blind promises.

thankyou, you have made me feel better about it are you and your partner still together if you dont mind me asking?

yeahh i have reassured her plenty and i mean every single word of what i say, she says she believes me but still the thought of it makes her upset, least its all settled now

[IndiReloaded]

Well if you aren't even 20 that explains things. I wouldn't read too much into her worries. You are probably her first serious relationship & she wants some reassurance it will last. Or that her 'sexual sacrifice' has some deeper meaning. There are no guarantees, of course, about the future but its hard for a gal her age especially to understand this. Do your best to reassure her, but within reason, as MisS said already.

[ransom_nite]

Well if you aren't even 20 that explains things. I wouldn't read too much into her worries. You are probably her first serious relationship & she wants some reassurance it will last. Or that her 'sexual sacrifice' has some deeper meaning. There are no guarantees, of course, about the future but its hard for a gal her age especially to understand this. Do your best to reassure her, but within reason, as MisS said already.

yeahh i know where your coming from cheers and my lord i hope things stay how they are in the future

[miSSleepy]

thankyou, you have made me feel better about it are you and your partner still together if you dont mind me asking?

yeah, 5 years next April









hehe

[Only-virgins]

She did something that may cause you to want to leave her. I don't understand otherwise why only 2 years later this fear would arise.

[ransom_nite]

She did something that may cause you to want to leave her. I don't understand otherwise why only 2 years later this fear would arise.

thats what i thought at first but it didnt end up being the case, she simply said she was really emotional and the thought of it just got to her and she broke down? doesnt matter that much anymore cause its all good now