nervous about new romance

[ClareC]

Hi, So I really like this guy.
And we've been seeing each other for about a month. But, I know it may sound petty, but I can't tell whether he likes me or not!
When we first started hanging out, he was really positive and told me that he was keen and what not, would text me and call me lots and be really flirty. But now, he is boring to text, and doesn't ring me anymore. He does still initiate messaging and catching up sometimes. He asked me to go with him to the doctors, which I hope is a good sign. Things are ok when were together, but its just little things like, he'll be really talkative at lunch time, but by the afternoon he's turned quiet.
On one occasion he asked me where i was, and I told him the name of the bar i was at for a birthday. A couple of hours later he texted me again asking where i was, and i was still at the same bar. And he just goes. 'Oh, i just left there'. Like couldn't just come say hi!!

But yeah. i dunno if this is just him being a typical guy. but any advice would be amazing

[xxazurexx]

When they aren't putting in any effort anymore, the interest has waned.

[Anturo]

Defiantly not a typical guy.

A typical guy would have joined you at the bar.

Well a typical guy that is interested anyways.

[ClareC]

yeah we've kissed and stuff... and we cook dinner together and that kind of thing a fair bit.
Its just hard cause I really like him.. and I don't know... grrr. boys

[Anturo]

yeah we've kissed and stuff... and we cook dinner together and that kind of thing a fair bit.
Its just hard cause I really like him.. and I don't know... grrr. boys

So you've kissed then the interest faded for him?

Sounds to me like there was no spark for him like there was for you.

Sorry, but you need to move on before you get too attached (maybe too late for you though).