I'm the only one he's ever been with, will he get bored of me?

[Madison_1990]

My boyfriend is 22 and i'm 20. We've been together for a year and half and really love each other and are thinking about getting engaged in a year or two. I can easily see a happy life together but one thing bothers me. My boyfriend has never had another girlfriend and before me he had only made out with a few other girls. I'm his "first" i'm really worried he's going to wake up one day and realize he wants to have experince with other girls, enjoy the single life since he never did before. He tells me i'm crazy for thinking this but his lack of experince really does scare me. I'm not worried he'll cheat, i don't think he'll ever be that guy but i am worried he may leave thinking the grass is greener on the other side...because he is good looking

[toshiba]

You have a valid concern there. But it depends 100% on the person.

My friend and I were both 20 when we got our first GF's (actually first thing EVER for us, we suck, haha).

He is currently happily married to his first.

Curiosity pushed me to "take a break" from my first and "date" other people after being with my first for about 4 years, we never got back together. I don't regret this decision, I learned a lot since but have not yet found anyone I like as much as her.

[bulrush]

The biggest factor here is whether you keep him happy in bed or not. If you keep him happy in bed, he will have no reason to look elsewhere. There are other factors, but this is a big one.

I think that for most men, sex is what creates an emotional bond to their mates. No sex=no bonding=no relationship. There are exceptions, but this is my theory. So for men, the sex is what creates the emotional bond. For women, the emotional bond usually comes first, then sex.

[toshiba]

The biggest factor here is whether you keep him happy in bed or not. If you keep him happy in bed, he will have no reason to look elsewhere. There are other factors, but this is a big one.

I think that for most men, sex is what creates an emotional bond to their mates. No sex=no bonding=no relationship. There are exceptions, but this is my theory. So for men, the sex is what creates the emotional bond. For women, the emotional bond usually comes first, then sex.

Lots of sex is a prerequisite for me. If not there it will surely break the deal for me.

BUT, even WITH plenty of sex, there is a lot more to desire. I always had tons of sex in every relationship I was in (couple serious, many casual), and I still left the girl.


EDIT: back to original posters concerns...
I was just curious what another pu$sy would be like, even though she was a great girl. I did learn she was an awful kisser and I could make a women orgasm (she never did) fairly easily. Now I am still looking for someone with all she had and more (why down-grade?), which may not be an easy task, but I don't regret leaving her and doing what I did, I learned so much.

[vashti]

Yes, if you stay together long enough, he WILL get bored of you. You will get bored of him, too.

[toshiba]

Yes, if you stay together long enough, he WILL get bored of you. You will get bored of him, too.

Anyone can get bored of anything. My concern would be if he will regret never being with anyone else (as a comparison perhaps).

[vashti]

Anyone can get bored of anything. My concern would be if he will regret never being with anyone else (as a comparison perhaps).

Yes, and sometimes you will regret not being with anyone else, too. That's the reality of long-term relationships. Whether or not one chooses to ACT on those regrets is a matter of character.

[sadie_genie]

Depends on the person. I think you should talk to him about this. Some people would be curious to see what else is out there. Others, when they found something they like, they stick to it.