Why doe he seem like he trying to be my boyfriend?

**iamminzy** · 29-10-11, 04:29 AM

ok couple months ago, me and this guy (lets call him Bob) hung out. Bob made it clear to me he just wanted to be friends and nothing more, but he seems to be leading me on and seem to want more than just friends such as hugging me, kissing me, making out with me, asking me what kind of guy I like, and if I want a boyfriend, etc...

Who does he think he is? What is he trying to do? He is acting like he is trying to be my boyfriend. I don't like that at all

This saturday I am going to an Halloween event and a promoter (lets call him Tom) I met at a bbq said he is willing to give me a ride since I have no other options. I been telling Bob all week that I probably need the Tom to drive me and he says he doesn't know about that and says that he hates Tom because he has temper issues and talks to him in a condescending tone.

Anyways I will be doing a dance performance this saturday. Bob said that if he could see my dance performance this saturday, he could give me a ride. I asked him what's wrong with Tom driving me? Bob told me he doesn't like him and said he thought we went over this before. He said its ok, you will see what I mean, you can find it out yourself, or maybe think differently about Tom.

So its not because the promoter is a creeper or anything, Bob just doesn't like Tom. I told him I should be fine and besides there's no way he can see my dance performance because space is limited and its a private event. Bob said its ok.. you can enjoy a nice ride with Tom. Bob even told me that Tom is nice to girls, willing to pay, and drive girls.

Just because Bob doesn't like him, he's wants to talk me out of it.

Bob's making things really complicated. I am just hoping we can just stay as friends but as of right now, he's making it very very weird... and now I don't think its a good idea for us to hang out as friends.

Is he just trying to be controlling and not want me to hang out with other guys, so me and him can hang out? or wut? jealousy?

btw he told me he liked me before but as of right now, he said probably doesn't like me enough. so ok, we can just be friends.

Also one more thing, he always introduces me to his friends and its kinda awkward. Every time we go clubbing or when we go somewhere, he always taps on me and says this is so and so. I'm like kinda far away, but manages to tap me on the shoulder and introduces me.

**BackUpOrGetStng** · 29-10-11, 04:38 AM

Put your foot down. Tell him that you two are not dating, and if he wants to have that conversation then you are open to it, but until then he needs to stay out of your personal life.

**surfhb** · 29-10-11, 04:39 AM

Yeah.... he's a controlling ass

**BackUpOrGetStng** · 29-10-11, 04:50 AM

Yeah I didn't even address the part about him being a controlling ass. You should definitely hook up with Tom once the night is over. Bob sounds really lame.

**iamminzy** · 29-10-11, 04:52 AM

eh well Tom i just met him few weeks ago, and I am not interested in him. I never said I was haha. He just nice to offer me a free ticket to the halloween and event and free ride though I never asked for it. All those promoters knows me by now because i am related to my brother who is the dj for that clubbing company.