What doe he want from .me?

[parkbom]

I like him, but now I eh about him because he never really made an initiation to ask me out or initiate contact. It's more like I had some interest in him. We flirt, tease/make fun of each other all the time. I usually initiate the contact and he usually talks a lot. When I don't text him for few days, he would text me and one time he asked why I was always afk. He ask me if I like this guy or that guy. blah blah blah.. Why does he wanna know anyways?

I grew weary of him because he never made initiation. My friend told me to ignore him and I have, but the only thing I did was comment on his Facebook status merely to comment on what others have said. He usually text me that he is bored and yea how you want me to respond to that?? My friend said that's good and its not a bad thing, he probably just want to talk to you. Went to dinner once, but he doesn't really make a move. He texted me on Monday that he was bored. He texted me on V-day that he is bored, but he went to celebrate V-day singles day with his friends (guys/gals) like an hour after he texted me. What's up with texting me, but he has plans? Last time, he told me about this restaurant thats really good and that I should try it, but I said I don't wanna go alone and he said we can go together sometimes like next month. he needs to detox and he even told me to watch out for him and make sure he doesn;t drink or eat fatty stuff.?? What does he want from me?

[bulrush]

What is "eh"? What is "afk"? Please do not use abbreviations. There are some old, wise farts on here and we don't know all the latest abbreviations.

He usually text me that he is bored and yea how you want me to respond to that??

He wants you to entertain him for a minute, tell him a joke or something. People like other people that have a sense of humor.

Went to dinner once, but he doesn't really make a move.

Taking you to dinner WAS the move. What else did you expect? A grope in the bathroom? If you wanted him to kiss you, why didn't you ask him "So, are you going to kiss me?" That's more direct if you don't want to actually kiss him first.

he needs to detox and he even told me to watch out for him and make sure he doesn;t drink or eat fatty stuff.?? What does he want from me?

Sounds like he wants your help. It might be a test to see if you will help him out to show you care about him. People that care about each other help each other out.

[smackie9]

This guy is a lame ass. If you can't handle going out with a lame ass then don't waste your time, because he will be a lame ass BF with you initiating everything.

[parkbom]

he does sound like a lame ass... i been ignoring him and all he says is bored... if he wants to talk then talk in away where we can have a two way convo. I can't stand him. But honestly, I don't think he goes on dates much. When he goes out, it usually with a bunch of girls and couple guys.

I can come across as shy, that's probably why he doesn't know how to approach me, but he was already like that from the beginning. hardly initiate contact. We actually kissed once because we both got really buzzed... >_<

[Mathias]

he does sound like a lame ass... i been ignoring him and all he says is bored... if he wants to talk then talk in away where we can have a two way convo. I can't stand him. But honestly, I don't think he goes on dates much. When he goes out, it usually with a bunch of girls and couple guys.

I can come across as shy, that's probably why he doesn't know how to approach me, but he was already like that from the beginning. hardly initiate contact. We actually kissed once because we both got really buzzed... >_<

So, you clearly don't like this guy. Move on.

It's really that simple.

[smackie9]

Ya I agree. If you are the type of girl that gets turned on by a guy with confidence, then you are with the wrong guy. Guys like him need an aggressive type of girl to pick up the slack. As you can see you are not really getting what you want from this guy....time to bail.